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Letters to Sister BA

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

It is fitting that we should celebrate your ninety years of life as we continue to celebrate the Beatification of your special patron, Blessed Basile Antoine Marie Moreau. Congratulations! I have fond memories of your kindness to us young Holy Cross Sisters who studied at Saint Mary's College in the late 1950's and early 1960's. Your encouragement and common sense were very supportive. You remain in my prayers with much love and gratitude.

—Sister Mary E. Sullivan, CSC (Class of 1963)

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

I only spoke with you one time so you will probably not remember me but I want to thank you for a gift of love that you gave to me. I came to St. Mary's College in 1961 as a sophomore transfer student. Early in my first semester I came to your office with a friend of mine who needed to speak with you. I had come from a difficult unhappy experience with Catholic college education and during the discussion in your office I made a sarcastic comment. I do not recall your exact response but you responded with such an open, accepting heart that it "woke me up" from what had become an unconscious, bitter attitude that I had! I went on to enjoy my college experience at St. Mary's and I resumed my respect for nuns and Catholic education. I have always been grateful to you for your assistance in helping me to move on.

—Patricia Walsh Wildes, Class of 1964

Please give Sister B.A. my fondest regards and very best wishes for a long and happy life. Her first year was my last one. I don't remember her then but subsequent reunions have left happy memories. Happy, happy birthday, sister and many more.

—Ann Sheets Butler, Class of 1942

Dear Sister B.A.,

Happy Birthday from one who remembers you like yesterday, bodily throwing the ND boys down the stairs during the panty raid during my freshman year in Holy Cross. Nonetheless, I did marry one of them, and he is still ok after 40 years of marriage. We are so very blessed to have been able to send our daughter to SMC for her education. She has turned out to be a wonderful person and soon to be mother. She is a true credit to SMC having completed her DVM at the University of Illinois and practices medicine in Oklahoma now. We wish she and her Air Force navigator could get back someday to Alaska with us. Much love and fond memories from both of us.

—George and Kim Cavanaugh Humm, Class of 1967

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Congratulations and thank you for all you have done for Saint Mary's over the last sixty-six years! When we think about the importance of Saint Mary's in our lives, our thoughts immediately turn to you and the fact that you personify all that we treasure about this great College. Best wishes for continuing good health.

—Joe and Virginia Koschnick Tuohy, Class of 1950 and Mimi Tuohy O'Leary, Class of 1989

To Sister Basil Anthony:

I remember when you interviewed me for admission to St. Mary's in 1965. You were very kind to me and my mother. Thank you for the fond memory and kindness. St. Mary's College and the education that it provided for me has made it possible for me to do many amazing things. As an extension of my education, my three siblings went on to get college educations and master degrees. They are an example to others as well. So, you see, your good works keep getting multiplied exponentially! May God continue to bless you.

—Almira Wilson Cann, M.D., Ph.D., Class of 1969

Sister B.A.,

You made me feel welcome, both as a student and an alumna just beginning her tenure on the national Alumnae Board. Your humor, flexibility, hospitality, and faith have made a great difference in the lives of countless women and we give thanks for you.

—Aimee Beckmann-Collier, Class of 1975

Dear Sr. Basil Anthony,

You are a terrific role model for women. You are a tribute to the Holy Cross Sisters and to Saint Mary's College. Whenever I passed you in the hallways of Le Mans, you always answered with a smile and encouraging words. This was very reassuring for a young girl far from her home in Virginia. Thank you for the encouragement. Happy Birthday and congratulations on reaching many milestones, not just 90 years, in your very full life! You are an inspiration.

Sincerely,

—Patricia Quinn Murnane, Class of 1984

Congratulations, Sister B.A.! What a lot of memories we all have of you, especially the ones where you stood at the sign-in desk watching over us. Thanks for all the watching. It kept some of us on the straight and narrow, some of the time. P.S. I never was responsible for painting the water tower. I don't like heights. But I think I told you this in 1966.

Love,

—Anne Sheehan Garbarino, Class of 1966

I was a student at St. Mary's from 1963-1967, and Sister Basil Anthony was Dean of Students. I remember her with great fondness for her kindness and support. She was so well suited to be in charge of the students; she was a good judge of character and was so fair to all of us. I congratulate her on reaching this milestone birthday.

—Tricia Haley Killeen, Class of 1967

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Congratulations on celebrating your 90th birthday! God has blessed you with many years which you have given in loving service to the Saint Mary's College community. I remember your joyful presence so well in my four years at SMC; you always had a smile as I'd pass you in Le Mans Hall. So, Happy Birthday, Sister, and may you enjoy many more. You deserve it!!!

Best Wishes,

—Mary Frances McAuliffe McLaughlin, Class of 1973

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Happy birthday and many good wishes and prayers for your happiness and health in years to come.

—Mary Chmielewski Golichowdki, Class of 1967, one of Sister Raphaelita's "girls"

My favorite memory of Sister B.A. was in the dining room. We all were assigned in rotation to Sister's table for dinner, sort of like dining with the Captain on a cruise. I worked at the post office just before dinner so it was a long run to Le Mans Hall from Holy Cross Hall. I usually was the last to enter the dining hall. When I arrived at the table, I was the last one there, so I had to take the seat directly across the table from Sister. I felt awkward as I had never eaten at table with a nun before and I was only a freshman from a NY public school. As the others chattered on, I sat quietly, desperately hoping never to say a word, and then to go away in peace, unnoticed. As it turns out, when I cut my first piece of meat, the fork slipped, propelling the morsel through the air and onto Sister's plate. The horror! Sister kindly and mercifully (and with her own particular sense of humor) said, "My! The meat is tough tonight." That's why I loved her so.

—Marianne Elliott Morin, Class of 1964

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Thank the good Lord for your long life for the benefit of all your friends. You are a marvelous example of love and dedication to Our Lord and His Blessed Mother. We recall the cheerful greeting you always had for both of us whenever we saw you on campus. We always looked forward to seeing you and your pleasant smile at the Saturday picnic when we returned for our reunions. We congratulate you on your 90th birthday and pray that you will be able to enjoy even more. In a few years both of us will join you as those who have reached their 90th year. God bless you and keep you and we assure you that you are always in our daily prayers.

We send our love and blessings,

—Bob (ND’40) and Kay Houser Sanford, Class of 1942

I met Sister Basil Anthony through my mother-in-law, Carol Wiseman Smith '55. I believe I met her as a freshman during one of the Chicago quilters' clubs and many SMC alumnae events. I also got to know her through our mutual friend, Fr. Bob Pelton, C.S.C. To this day, whenever I see Sister Basil Anthony (and unfortunately, that's not too often since I live in Cleveland), she remembers me, my mother-in-law, and my husband. I will never forget her wandering through the hallways when I was a student, and I will never forget her friendship since. Happy Birthday Sister Basil Anthony! You truly are Saint Mary's College!

Sincerely,

—Maureen Karnatz Smith, Class of 1985

Dear Sister B.A.,

Congratulations from Washington, D.C. on such a memorable occasion!! In this town, we would have Congress declare "Sister B.A. Day," run up the flag, enter a well deserved resolution in the Congressional Record, and hold a tribute-laden gala!!! And even with all that, none of it would be enough to tell you how much you are admired, loved, and truly cherished by all you have touched, especially those of us who are part of the Saint Mary's family. Thank you for always being the true face of our College, for being the front door to all that it stands for, and for all you have done to enrich the lives of so many of us over the years. Of course, we all know that it is your Irish heritage that is the reason for it all...and so in keeping with that, may all the Irish angels and saints bless you today and everyday. You are without a doubt, a wonderful ladywhose Irish eyes make ME smile!!!! I love you!!!

Fondly,

—Beth Lichtenfels Veihmeyer, Class of 1977

I am sending a special happy birthday to Sister B.A. 90 years, what a milestone!! Yesterday, I attended a gathering of the Holy Cross sisters in Ventura, California. It was for Father Basile Moreau who was quite a man (soon to be a saint). It was wonderful to see them and brought back so many memories of St. Mary's. May God bless you in every way.

—Helene Preece McCormack, Class of 1950

Sister Basil Anthony was my great aunt's (Mother Rose Elizabeth) assistant, companion, secretary, travel agent, press secretary, planter of St. Joseph medals in property to assure that Jesus's father would help them acquire it, and all around aide-de-camp for her boss, when Mother Rose was "Mother General" of the community. This was when Sister Basil Anthony was a mere slip of a girl, as the Irish would say. I was eight or nine when this very tall thirty-one-year-old with all these responsibilities on her shoulders, to say nothing of the discreteness required of the head of the CIA, arrived at my house in San Francisco with Mother Rose Elizabeth for a visit. Naturally my mother and father had prepared a special dinner and brought out the best tablecloth and silverware. Earlier in the day, I recall, we had visited an "ice cream parlor" in Union Square, where we all sat, Sister and Mother in full habit on counter stools, and ate lots of ice cream. I was fascinated by the fact the Sisters ate ice cream, because in my experience, it tended to dribble and I was sure that nuns never got dribbled on...all that black serge...After we had eaten dinner ("supper in 50's speak") around nine o'clock, Mother Rose announced that they had another stop to make, at a convent in San Mateo. We gathered ourselves, placed the sisters carefully in the back seat of our car, and headed south. I remember that Sister Basil Anthony wanted to hear camp songs that I was proud to sing for her. I can hear her today saying, "Oh, Mary Elizabeth, that's wonderful!" When we arrived at around 10 p.m. the Sisters in San Mateo had been waiting with a grand supper prepared, door knobs polished, floors waxed, and standing at the door. Mother Rose and Sister Basil Anthony emerged from the car looking delighted, announced that they were famished (that's my memory, dear reader) and wasn't it perfect that the sisters had prepared this lovely meal. I wanted to say, "But they ate at my house!" but Sister Basil Anthony smiled down at me from that memorable height, with her benign, "I can keep a secret--can you?," look that has served me well over the years in many a social situation. Let the record reflect that the visitors without hesitation sat down for another hearty meal.

Even though we have lost touch over the years, her unfailing robustness and cheer have remained with me as an enduringly sweet memory of my childhood. My parents loved her as family and it was another one of Mother Rose Elizabeth's inspired and wise moves to choose her to share those years with her as her close and trusted companion. One could not have asked for a better one.

—Mary Elizabeth Burns (Sister Edmund Campion, C.S.C.)

Dear Sister B.A.,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!! What a wonderful day to celebrate you and all you have done for others! I am from the SMC class of 1986 and I worked in the Alumnae Office all four years at St. Mary's. I am the grand niece of Sister Elizabeth Ann Bauman whom you knew well--my dear Aunt Frances! I was privileged to see you riding around in a golf cart at our 20th reunion last summer and you looked fantastic! I had such a great time working with you and Dorrie and Laverne in the Alumnae Office while I was in school. It's people like you who made me feel right at home and always treated me with great respect. I admired you then and I still admire you today--you are a kind, caring, and generous person. May God bless you on your 90th birthday and may you have many more happy days!!

Love,

—Robin Rodi Creevy, Class of 1986

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Happy 90th Birthday! What a milestone! God has blessed you many times over. One of my memories was in my junior year; you had to notarize my passport application. It made me smile when I left your office to find that your family name was Bridget O' Flynn. It was probably the first time that I realized that there was a woman under the nun's habit. Enjoy your day and God Bless.

—Pat Hilger Zeigler, Class of 1966

A very Happy and blessed Birthday to Sister Basil Anthony! I still remember your smiling face greeting us in the halls of Le Mans! Congratulations on 90 well-lived and purposeful years!

—Debbie Tirsway Hubbell, Class of 1974

I would very much like to send many wonderful birthday wishes for Sister B.A. The Sisters of the Holy Cross helped make my college experience so very unique and so very special in an increasingly chaotic world, and I cannot thank Sisters like her enough for making Saint Mary's what it is today.

Sincerely,

—Bernadette Pampuch Rivero, Class of 1997

Happy 90th Birthday Sister Basil Anthony,

I'll always remember your many kindnesses when I was a lowly mail girl from St. Joseph's high school working at SMC delivering inter-office mail in the beautiful halls of the College. You were always kind to me, never too busy to look up and chat for a minute. I wish you much happiness and God's continued blessing on your 90th birthday.

—Rebecca Stuglik Mueller, Class of 1970

Sister B.A. called Pat Hagan (Broderick) and me into her office for the sin of popcorn. Yup, we had done the unpardonable popcorn in our room thing... But she had always said that it was taboo because everybody could smell it and not everybody was invited to share it. So we told her that we had invited everyone, what was the problem? At that point she actually burst into uncontrollable laughter (boy we WERE naieve!). So, no punishment and lots of laughter in that room, since we couldn't keep it back either! A memorable B.A. moment, fondly remembered.

—Pat Ralicki McGowan, Class of 1964

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Happy Birthday! I graduated in May 1984. I believe you were working in Alumnae Relations and public affairs at the time. For my entire four years, I recall your happy face. You always had a cheerful smile and kind word for all of us young ladies. No matter what the weather outside, as I took a shortcut to class through Le Mans, your sunny disposition brightened the day. (A few of my classmates had worked with you and always enjoyed their experiences.) May you have a wonderful birthday filled with good friends and time to reminisce on 90 years of living a faith-filled and fun-filled life that touched thousands of people in a special way. Best regards! May God continue to bless you!

—Linda Van Eck Shepard, Class of 1984

Thank you for all you did for each of us at St. Mary's but especially for my sister, Mary Ellen Dailey Higgins, who loved you and appreciated all you did for those of us who were Staff Students and now older alumnae. Thanks for your years of service.

—Anna Rita Dailey Locke, Class of 1948

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

One of my fondest memories of St. Mary's is the year that Cherylann Galasso and I spent as your neighbor in Le Mans Hall. Little did we know the dramas that were unfolding along that corridor! But you kept order and were a very quiet neighbor! Your presence and example have long been part of my personal ideal. I wish you many more happy, healthy, and holy years!

—Christine Nichols Donohue, Class of 1966

Dear Sister Basil Anthony.

Blessing on this special day. I would like to share a poem I encountered while a student at St. Mary's. It is with me at all times.

Peace,

—Denise, Class of 1964

i thank you God for most this amazing day:
for the leaping greenly spirits of trees
and a blue tree dream of sky: and for everything
which is natural which is infinite which is YES
(i who have died am alive again today,
and this is the sun's birthday; this is the birth
day of life and of love and of wings; and of the gay
great happening illimitably earth)
how should tasting touching hearing seeing
breathing any - lifted from the no
of all nothing- human merely being
doubt unimaginable YOU?
(now the ears of my ears awake and
now the eyes of my eyes are opened)
—--- e. e. cummings

Sister B.A was a young nun when I attended St. Mary’s from 1948-1952 but she already made an impression on me of compassion and understanding. May your 90th birthday be filled with blessings on this special day as well as throughout the years. You've been a model of dedication to our Lord, St. Mary’s itself, and students and their families over the years.

Love, prayers, peace,

—Marilyn/Lynn Dargis Ambrose, Class of 1952

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

I send you my warmest regards and wishes for health and joyful enlightenment in all the years to come. My years at Saint Mary's (1980-1984) opened many avenues to new ideological pursuits and reverence for historical perspective. During my years on campus, I was happy to spend time with someone you might know—Sister Marianna. She was my second cousin. I spent many happy hours with her in the quaint old telephone room outside the main door of Le Mans Hall, connecting telephone conversations and learning about her life and sharing the times of my own—or at least all that seemed so important at the time.

I was also niece to Sister Rita Meehan who rests in the cemetery on campus. I found much peace with her there—able to spend solitary meditative time with her during my college years (with all its emotional tumult.) Saint Mary's, and all it holds dear, represents a wonderful place in my heart. Please know that I wish you well and send my love.

Sincerely,

—Ann von Wahlde Fink, Class of 1984

Best wishes from Britain to dear Sr. B.A., who even at 90 can't possibly be old.

—Caroline Dull Hamburger, Class of 1967

I have very fond memories of Sister Basil Anthony. She knew my mother, Patricia Daley O'Keefe (1945) and many of my aunts, especially Claire Daley Archibald (1949). She would tell me stories about my aunts and was always very interested in the lives of her students. Congratulations on 90 years of life and I wish you all the best.

—Mary Beth O'Keefe Buescher, Class of 1971

A few years back, Sr. B.A., Barb Henry, and Jo Ann McKenzie stayed at my house in California, while on business for the College. My husband and I were out of town at the time. While they were there, the pest control tech came by to spray the back yard. Sr. B.A. answered the door and told him in no uncertain terms that she could not allow him to so while she was in charge. When we returned from our trip, I called the pest control company to inquire why my yard had not been serviced. The receptionist told me, "A big nun wouldn't let him past the gate!"

I've enjoyed Sister's friendship since my undergraduate days, and become even closer since my tenure on the Alumnae Board in the late 90's. She's a great lady and I wish her a wonderful birthday, and many more to come.

Love,

—Barbara Benford Trafficanda, Class of 1959

I graduated from St. Mary's in 1964. At that time Sister B.A. was Dean of Students. In the middle of my junior year, Sister B.A. called me into her office to "chat." I was, at that time, a Creative Writing major. She sat me down and talked to me about the fact that she thought that I should be working with people. I still don't know what she saw that made her form this opinion and communicate it to me.

Since I was a pretty good writer, but not really good enough, I took her advice and majored in Sociology with a concentration in Social Work. I went on to work as a Social Worker until the birth of my first child. When my last child was in school, I went back to college and earned my Masters and then my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. Until I retired recently, I have worked in private practice in Clinical Psychology. That "chat" was certainly a life-altering event for me!

—Anne Heidrich Diebel-Lane, Class of 1964

Happy 90th Birthday, Sister Basil Anthony,

May all the blessings of the day and the year be ones of good health, continued good humor, enduring wisdom, and joy! You have been an inspiration to many of us throughout the years. Who you are, no matter the job/ministry, has spoken to your zeal, dedication and love. Celebrate!

With love,

—Sister Genevra Rolf, CSC

Sister BA interviewed me in the fall of 1967 in her Le Mans office. My mother and I had driven from eastern Pennsyvania in a hurricane and this was my first in-person interview anywhere—the weather reflected my apprehensions exactly. After asking me about my academic interests, Sister turned to my family and upon learning that I was the eldest of four, all with serious health issues as young children, Sister said, "Well, Mrs. Thompson, this one probably raised herself, and she will be the better for it. St. Mary's will help her be the best woman she can be." It was that interview that convinced me to look no further. My now 91-year-old mother recalls this story often, as she was so impressed with Sister's ability to size my family and me up and put us on a path. I know she did that for many of us and would suspect she is still doing this.

—Peggy Thompson, Class of 1972

With you, Sister, I rejoice and thank God for the many gifts given you and used for the good of all of us alumnae and countless others. May God give you many more years of health, holiness, and happiness.

Sincerely,

—Sister Justine Apfeld, SMR, Class of 1941

What a fantastic milestone—and what amazing things you have done with your 90 years. I hope to make a quarter of the difference in the world that you have. St. Mary's would not have been the same without you.

—Celine Jordan Osborn, Class of 1972

Wow 90 Years!!!! I attended SMC from 1978-1982. I have always had fond memories of you, Sister, as you seemed to be genuinely smiling all the time and very friendly to us as students, whether we raced through Le Mans to our classes or just walked across the quad. I know our paths crossed when I was working for Saga food service and I would serve dinner to the Sisters in the downstairs dining room of the dining hall. If my memory serves me well, we also had an opportunity to cross paths my senior year when I was student body vice president for academic affairs. Again I remember your support and kindness and your energy level. I would agree that you embody St. Mary's and its mission to support the development young women in their academic and spiritual growth. On a personal note—I went on to become a Holy Cross Associate for 18 months because of my great relationship with you and the many Holy Cross Sisters. As a Congregation, you all were “movers and shakers” before that was the popular thing to do, especially out here in the Intermountain West—true mission country. Have a wonderful birthday celebration!!!!

Fondly,

—Mary “Emmie” Lopez Gardner, Class of 1982

Happy Birthday Sister!

It can't be possible that such a milestone is occurring. It only shows you have been a much better person than most and have taken good care of yourself. Ruthie and I have very ford memories of our years at Notre Dame and Saint Mary's, both as students and as parents of students. It is a truly remarkable place and is kept that way because of the many special people such as you that have dedicated your lives to make it the best it can be. When I think of Saint Mary's, I think of you. And every day I thank God for my wife. I also thank those of you who helped her become the person she is today. I feel the same way about Kathy, our daughter, who was able to experience many of the same things that we enjoyed and/or suffered through. There are countless thousands of others who share my feelings toward you and Saint Mary's. I hope you have a wonderful birthday and a good party. You deserve it.

—B.J. Smith, husband of Ruth Schnaus Smith, Class of 1963

Dear Sister Basil Anthony:

Happy 90th Birthday! For me, as for no doubt thousands of students, you were the first "face" I met that represented Saint Mary's College. Although I did not have an appointment when my family and I visited Saint Mary's as a high school junior, you made time to sit with me for a visit. As a relatively shy high school student, I had the good fortune to meet with someone such as yourself who was not intimidating but welcoming. It made me feel as though I would be welcome at Saint Mary's. You encouraged me to apply for early admittance and make Saint Mary's my first choice, which I did. I was delighted to be accepted "early decision" and fortunate to enjoy four wonderful years at Saint Mary's. Also, my father, Joseph Fahey, later joined the Board at the College and often told me that he thought so highly of you as he worked alongside you on the Board. Although he is now no longer with us, I know he, too, would wish you the very happiest of birthdays to be enjoyed in good health.

Sincerely,

—Jill Fahey Birkett, Class of 1974

Dear Sister M. Basil Anthony O'Flynn,

Thank you for making St. Mary's College a place for young women to grow and develop on all levels. My academic and spiritual life were enriched; I even became a varsity athlete (something I had never expected or planned). Fencing was my sport, as it was my sister, Louise Enyedy Bergin '80. So many non-textbook lessons were learned from a very caring and concerned staff, especially in the Chemistry Department. I thank you for helping all of us grow closer to the Lord and expand our horizons!

—Dr. Roseann Enyedy Cyngier, Class of 1981

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Happy Birthday! I have prayed for you over the years and am so happy to know you are celebrating life again this year. Gwen Seidensticker, your friend from Arizona, introduced us way back in the 80's. I am Nicole and my sister is Cheryl Bonacci. I graduated in 88 and she in 86. Our mother, Priscilla Bonacci, brought us in to your beautiful office in Le Mans and I remember feeling the kindest welcome. We said, "nice to meet you" and “thank you” back then but you must be told again. Your welcome for my sister made me want to follow in her tracks. Two years later, you welcomed me and, again, on graduation day, the four of us took little walk. It was a very sweet way to bookend my experience at Saint Mary's. You never know the blessings received in even the smallest act of kindness. I am still receiving one from you on those encounters. So, thank you again. I have loved hearing about you over the years and am so grateful for the request for stories. Mine is just to say, "You are remembered." Happy Birthday. Thank you for all of the praying and guiding you have done over the years.

Sincerely,

—Nicole Bonacci Pugliese, Class of 1988

Dear Sister B.A.,

This is a celebration too wonderful to miss! How happy all of us are for you, especially us old-timers who were in College classes with you. I don't know which classes you and I enjoyed/endured together because all you novices sat in the back row in class with your heads down and weren't supposed to talk to us who didn't wear convent garb. But we have made up for that at reunions after you and we graduated and you were professed. Much love and many good wishes and prayers for you as you reach this landmark birthday. I hope to see you at Reunion 2008 which will be the 60th for my class. Hugs and kisses!

—Carolyn (Carrie) Powers Powell, Class of 1948

One wonderful weekend in the Spring of 1965 my beau David Schiavone and I returned to Le Mans with my roommate Helen Reichert (Student Body President) and her companion for the evening, John Gearen (Student Body President at ND). We were not part of the "make out behind the curtains" crowd. However, we were very jovial and were discretely called into B.A.'s office for a little chat. A friendly chat. We talked of what we were planning for the future. The memory of that evening is the most pleasant of the many times I managed to be called into BA's lair. David and I recently celebrated our 40th wedding anniversary and John Gearen and his wife live directly above our condo in Oak Park, IL. Helen lives with her husband in Rochester, MN. We all respected Sister Basil Anthony for her wisdom, her fairness, and her ability to terrify us while she winked and looked the other way. Utilizing her methods with our children proved successful many times. Thank you, Sister.

—Marianne Spalding Schiavone, Class of 1965

Congratulations, Sister! Next we will be seeing you with Willard Scott on the Today show.

—Dianne Corsaro Moore, Class of 1968

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Happy Birthday!! I am not sure if you will remember me, but I certainly remember you! In my freshman year at Saint Mary's, in fact on the day that I arrived, we met. As my mom, dad, and I were moving me into Regina Hall, there you were. And what a pleasant surprise it was for my mother to see you again (Mary Jo McNelis McFadden, SMC '60) many years after she had graduated. It wasn't until later on that we became friendly.

As a student, I would visit Sister Martha Maria in the convent nursing home, and we had a few occasions to have lunch together with you. And then, even later, while I was studying for my MBA at Notre Dame ('99-00), our paths would cross yet again when I would visit Sister Francesca; you would often join us (or let us join you!) for lunch. Without fail, every time we met, your cheerful smile and beautiful demeanor were ever present. There is no doubt that my time at St. Mary's, and also while I was at Notre Dame, were enhanced by the time I spent with you. I know that your presence has been a blessing to the entire community and I thank you for the love and care that you have given to the College and all around you. I hope that you have the happiest of birthdays. And wishing you all the very best in your new year!!

With warmest regards,

—Sheilah McFadden, Class of 1993

Dear Sister B.A.,

Happy 90th Birthday! Every woman in America wants to know what you use on your skin, as you have the luminosity of a college freshman. (Every nun I've ever asked that question always says, "plain soap and water," which is not the answer we non-nuns want to hear.) When I came to Saint Mary's, and you were introduced as Sister B.A., I thought it stood for Sister Bachelor of Arts. This will give you some idea how unsophisticated I was when I landed on your doorstep to attend Saint Mary's. As we say in New York City, you are the real deal, the best of the best, and a straight shooter. May God continue to bless you all the days of your long and healthy and happy and glorious life.

xoxoxo

—Adri Trigiani, Class of 1981

Congratulations to Sister Basil Anthony!

Thirty-two years out of St. Mary's, many memories are blurred/fuzzy. But when I think of St. Mary's, I think Sister Basil Anthony. She is the FACE of St. Mary's. I loved the intro to her celebration... She IS St. Mary's. I am so happy she has been there long enough to give that same sense of comfort to generations of women. God Bless, Sister!

—Patricia K. Ward, Class of 1975

In 1963, Sis Reynolds, Nancy Sheehan, and I had a room on the third floor of Le Mans, the first room to the left of the elevator on the way to the chapel. Sis and I had a plastic reindeer hanging out our transom door. One evening, as the nuns were going into the chapel, we started tossing our Rudolph plastic reindeer around. I don't know how we did it, but we somehow managed to crown Sister Madeleva with Rudolph—not a heavy hit, but certainly not what one would want to have happen to SMC 's frail, former president. We were called to Sister Basil Anthony's office the next morning and were filled with trepidation as to how we would be chastised. Maintaining a serious demeanor, Sister Basil Anthony strongly suggested that we never try anything like that again, and then let us go—no humiliation, no expulsion, just friendly tolerance and vast relief on our parts.

—Trish O'Leary-Treat, Class of 1964

As one of the tens of thousands of women who have met Sister Basil Anthony, I'd like to offer my congratulations and best wishes for many more happy years. I was in junior high when I first visited Saint Mary's. My sister Katie and I came for Little Sister Weekend to visit our sister Maggie. Sister B.A. was as friendly and welcoming then as she was when I graduated from Saint Mary's over a decade later. She is an institution, and even seeing her picture in the Alumnae Relations e-mail put a smile on my face. Happy Birthday, Sister!

—Betsy Killian, Class of 1996

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

I can still recall hearing your laughter and feeling your enthusiasm as I would walk to class through Le Mans. Thank you for blessing us with your joy. Happy Birthday!

—Suzie Stalter Lawson, Class of 1989

Dear Sister B.A.,

I have countless fond memories of our time working together at Saint Mary's in the mid- to late-80s. You always made my job as Alumnae Director easier through your kindness, wisdom and unique sense of humor. Some of my favorite memories are of our times hosting the "Salutes to Saint Mary's" in cities across the country. Do you recall the pink and blue color scheme? I thoroughly enjoyed the ones you traveled to with me, and will never forget the "chocolate decadence" dessert we shared in Washington, DC. Chocolate has never tasted so good. And who can forget the alumnae trip to Alaska with Mary Ann Spitters? That was such a fun cruise, but you made it even more enjoyable, particularly on the trip to the glacier in that tiny sea plane. I was afraid but you made us all feel at ease by reminding us of our faith in God. I have so many joyful and precious memories of you and the times we spent together. You always knew how to make me laugh, even in the toughest or most stressful of circumstances.

Congratulations on reaching your 90th year. No one has lived a fuller life, or touched as many people as you have. You will always hold a very special place in my heart. And don't forget, I have a stack of clothing and shoes stored away for your "reincarnation box"!

With great love and respect,

—Jeanne Martin, Class of 1981

Dear Sister,

I have many fond memories of starting up student government and working closely with you during those turbulent '60's. What a wonderful person you are. I am blessed to have known you. Have a very Happy and Blessed Birthday! Imagine making 90!!

Love and Hugs,

—Joan Evans Clippinger, Class of 1963

Dear Sister B.A.,

My best wishes for a very happy 90th birthday are accompanied by a big thank you for all you do for Saint Mary's. If you had not done what you do so well, I would not be the person I am. Thank you.

Keep smiling,

—Maureen Hogan Lang, Class of 1960

All the way from Anchorage, Alaska, I send greetings to you, Sister Basil Anthony, on the occasion of your 90th Birthday!! I'm sure you don't remember me, but I remember you. You were one of the very first people I met as a transfer student to Saint Mary's in the fall of 1980. I will always remember your warm, welcoming smile. I thank you for making me feel "at home" at Saint Mary's and I wish you all the best for a very Happy 90th Birthday celebration. May God bless you.

—Terese Blair Coomer, Class of 1983

Saint Mary's is an incredible place and it is due to you, Sister, and the other nuns. Thank you for giving me so many happy memories.

—Mary Alice Hixson Malesardi, Class of 1958

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

It has been an honor to know you. I am class of 1965, and have written the Courier news for 35 years. I thank you for your many years of wonderful service and your true expertise for our dear Saint Mary's College. May God bless you.

Sincerely,

—Sheila Kelly Ames, Class of 1965

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

I remember meeting you on the ND/SMC campus shuttle. We started talking. You told me that you were exploring getting a law degree by taking some law classes at Notre Dame. The conversation impressed me very much and made an impact on me. It taught me how important life-long learning was going to be to me and others. I came away from our conversation thinking, wow, this accomplished women who has already achieved many career milestones is beginning something new. It was a great lesson in humility and to being open in life to new opportunities as they present themselves. Thank you for the conversation and for every thing that you have done on behalf of Saint Mary's College. I wish you a very blessed and happy birthday and many happy more!

Sincerely,

—Marguerite Quinn Zappa, Class of 1981

Happy Birthday, dear Sister! God bless you.

Prayers and love,

—Carolyn Flynn Fay, Class of 1956

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Love, prayers, and best wishes are with you on your birthday as we all celebrate you and the gift you are to all whose lives you have touched. Your love for Holy Cross and Saint Mary's has endeared you to so many. Thank you for the witness your life of service continues to be. Your gracious manner and warm smile can brighten a day and lighten the heart. I wish you peace, joy, and the company of good friends and community as the new year of life ahead unfolds.

With love,

—Sister Joan Marie Steadman, CSC, Class of 1967

Two memories:

When I was a freshman in Le Mans, we had a huge panty raid. We were all very excited, hearing the young men crossing the highway chanting "Here Come the Irish!" There were so many that it sounded like a freight train approaching. I remember my friends and I were on the third floor in our nightgowns leaning out the windows to see what was going on when Sister B.A. swooped into the room, loudly warning us to be careful not the fall out the windows!! We were more scared of her than the hoards of men below.

In 1996, my husband and I had the privilege of traveling to Italy on an alumnae trip. I'll never forget celebrating New Year's Eve, dressed in formal attire, eating a feast at our hotel in the hours before midnight. Next to me was seated Sister Basil Anthony, wearing on top of her ever-present black veil a red party hat!!! Sister knows how to celebrate!!!

—Sara Bateman Koehler, Class of 1970

Happy Birthday, Sister B.A.!

I know this should be a time for giving you a gift as you celebrate your birthday, but I want you to know what a gift you have given me in my life. You made such a positive difference in my life, and I am certain other women who went to Saint Mary's feel the same. Because of your caring nature and your intense focus on helping young women grow into productive adulthood, I was touched by your grace early enough in my transition (to womanhood) that it has stuck with me all these years and I have tried to live my life making a difference for others. I attended Saint Mary's when you were the Dean of Students in the late 60's. What a different time and a different place then! But somehow over the last 40 years you have transcended time and are still influencing others. Thank you for being who you are, and for continuing to care about others. I wish you continued peace and love and hope your birthday celebration is a wonderful memory.

Love,

—Diane Daly McGarry, Class of 1970

I graduated in the class of 1946 and knew Sister very well. I now live in Phoenix, Arizona, but I lived in Ft. Lauderdale for 27 years and Sister would come to Ft. Lauderdale for alumnae neetings and visit for a day or two. She loved to visit Florida.

—Olive Windbiel George, Class of 1946

What a wonderful milestone Sister B.A. has reached! All the Morrissey Family (Sister M. Rose Ellen Morrissey, CSC) will be remembering Sister in their prayers on the occasion of her 90th birthday.

Fondly,

—Mary Morrissey McGowan, Class of 1992

Dear Sister,

What an inspiration you have been to all of us with any connection to St. Mary's College. I know how much my sister Katharine Terry Dooley, Class of 1928, thought of you. I add my good wishes to all those sending you birthday greeting.

God Bless You Always,

—Mary Terry Bader, Class of 1951

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Larry and I, along with Heather ’93, Megan ’89, and Erin McCabe ’00 want to wish you a wonderful 90th birthday!! We enjoyed knowing you when the girls were at school and we often think of you. May God bless you on your special day and give you many more.

Love,

—Gretchen and Larry McCabe

Congratulations Sister Basil Anthony!

I was a freshman at Saint Mary's in 1958. My mother was a classmate of Sister Laureta and Sister Maria Pieta (Class of 1922). Her name was Julia Flinn Anstett. A joyous celebration to you on the occasion of your 90th birthday! God bless!

—Diane Anstett Ward, Class of 1962

It is an honor for me to write a birthday tribute to Sister Basil Anthony. As a 1980 graduate and former member of the Alumnae Board, my relationship with Sister has been a gift. When I think of all the strong, faith-filled women who exemplify the ideals of a Saint Mary's woman, Sister Basil Anthony crowns the list. I have always admired her warm, loving, gregarious personality, her witty sense of humor, her faith, and her devotion to the Sisters of the Holy Cross. She is Saint Mary's and on this memorable occasion I wish her God's continued blessings, good health, and laughter as she celebrates with many of her admirers this special occasion.

As our first daughter, Hannah SMC '11, begins her tenure at Saint Mary's, I pray she will also be touched by the women of Saint Mary's who, like Sister B.A., have laid the foundation for this very special place.

My love to you,

—Chip Dornbach-Snyder, Class of 1980

Sister "B.A." was Dean of Students when I was a student at Saint Mary's in the 1960s. Her position required her to be a strong disciplinarian, but we also saw her softer, kinder side. So...when we didn't agree with her rules, we called her Sister Baa and when she was laughing and fun-loving, we called her Sister Bay. Happy 90th Birthday to this special person who personifies the Saint Mary's spirit!

—Dede Cotter Delaney, Class of 1966

Memories of Sister B.A.

"Never judge. That's for God to do." I always felt that Sr. B.A. lived that; some only preach it. God reward and bless her. She remains a dominant force, I'd wager to say, even into her nineties! Congratulations, Sister, B.A.

—Sandi Kudnowski Iaconetti, Class of 1966

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

The happiest of days on your 90th birthday! Saint Mary's is blessed to have someone like you to have been such an important part of it! Congratulations, and here's to many more!

—Toni Trigiani, Class of 1982

Sister Basil Anthony is a class act. She treated students with the same respect that she afforded administrators, alumnae, and faculty. I saw her about a year ago when my Kiwanis club tailgated with the Sisters at the Convent for one of the ND away games. She was as sharp as ever! She didn't know me by name, since she never did before, but she assured me that, in her words, "I'm still here!"

—Mary Berndt Lovett, Class of 1970

Happy Birthday, Sister! I want to join in wishing you many blessings as you begin your new decade of life! I am a class reporter for the class of 1969 for Courier and am always touched by the messages I receive from classmates. The spirit that is Saint Mary's is truly life-long and so loving. Thank you so very much for all that you have done to spread that wonderful spirit! God bless you!

—Joyce O'Donnell Bussewitz, Class of 1966

I am a Sister of the Holy Cross, Sister Emily Demuth, CSC. Sister was my "Black Veil" as we called the Sister who dressed us on our reception Day. She dressed me in the Holy Habit as I began my novitiate in 1951. Sister Basil Anthony has been my example that I try to follow as a "faithful daughter of our Founder, Blessed Basil Anthony Moreau." I rejoice with her on this 90th birthday, and I thank God that her path in life has crossed mine.

—Sister Emily Demuth, CSC

Dear Sister,

You hold a special place in our family's "memory book.” You joined us at many of our family tailgate parties, and your enthusiasm and humor were always present. You are an unforgettable person and an inspiration to so many of us. Thank you for dedicating your life to our beloved Saint Mary's. I send you warmest wishes for a happy birthday.

—Erin E. Gibbons, Class of 1986

I wish you a healthy and holy birthday. God bless you for your faithful work and witness throughout your years as a Sister of the Congregation of the Holy Cross. Thank you for answering God's call in your life. I pray that all those called to the religious life will respond as generously as you.

Sincerely,

—Mary Brunner Clark, Class of 1976

Happy 90th Birthday Sister Basil Anthony!

My favorite Sister B.A. story is when I was a freshman (Sept 1970) and was going to my first ND football game. My roommates and I had come back from the lunch at the dining hall where I know I had used my student ID. But when I got ready to go to the game I could not find my ID. My roommates and I hunted all over our room but we could not find it. Of course, panic set in. Was I going to miss my first ND football game? I told my roommates to go off to the game and I would hopefully meet them there. I went down to administration office in Le Mans to see if anyone would be in on a football Saturday which I doubted. Was I relieved to see Sister B.A. in her office! She was so kind in consoling me and offered to come up to my room to help me look again for my ID. I will never forget seeing the VP of Fiscal Affairs bending over going through my garbage can looking for my ID! I couldn't believe that someone would be willing to help me out to this extent especially a person of Sister BA's position. At that point I realized that SMC was not only a college but now my family and that the SMC family was there to help me no matter what the situation.

We weren't successful in finding the ID so we went down to her office and Sister BA typed a letter for me saying that I was an SMC student and had misplaced my Student ID and to please admit me into the ND football game. I rushed off to the game and the letter got me into the game! Sister Basil Anthony, thank you for saving the day of a young SMC freshman and her first ND football game! Special Birthday Blessings to you!

Love,

—Barbara Wolfston Urrutia, Class of 1974

P.S. By the way I found my student ID the next day. It was on the marble window sill at the scale on the 2nd floor Le Mans annex. For some crazy reason we would always weigh ourselves on the way back from meals and I had left my ID there after lunch on Saturday!

To Sister B.A.:

This will be short and sweet. My encounters with you were most assuredly brief during my stay at Saint Mary's. In fact, perhaps I only passed you on the beautiful campus or in the halls of Le Mans. But let me say this – you were part of the warmest and sweetest memory I will ever have the joy to look back upon. And now, Sister, my beautiful daughter, Anna, is a freshman at Saint Mary's and she is seeing what I saw so many years ago. My words never adequately described how I felt about my Saint Mary's, my home, but now she will know. And it will be your presence that will make it seamless – that same familiar face watching over her, as it did her mom and so many in between. Have a wonderful birthday.

Much love and warmest wishes,

—Mary Lanois Kastelic, Class of 1977

Sister Basil Anthony visited me in Santa Monica, California years and years ago. I had not known her while I was a student but got to know her later. It has always been a welcome home greeting every time I see her. The Sisters of the Holy Cross and their presence at the College are important parts of Saint Mary’s and even when I recognized no other Sister, I recognized and got to talk to Sister B.A. She IS Saint Mary’s! Happy Birthday, 90 years young.

—Susan Fitzgeral Rice, Class of 1961

Happy 90th birthday to Sister Basil Anthony!

I remember her as being one of the most good natured, outgoing, friendliest (and dare I say it, loudest) nuns I ever encountered. She was always fair in her dealings with students, and where there was a problem she would deal with it and follow up with a "There, that's done!" attitude, making those involved feel that they were forgiven but that surely they didn't want to have to face her judgment again. She was one of my favorites from all the Holy Cross nuns I knew at Saint Teresa's Academy in Boise, and at Saint Mary's at Notre Dame. Hard to believe she joined the order the year I was born! I wish her great health and happiness.

—Diane Dickerson Bird, Class of 1962

On one awful day I was persuaded to go on a blind date with a TA from ND on a canoeing trip. My blind date did not speak. I guess he disliked me as well as I disliked him. I was navigating, if you can do so in a canoe. Unfortunately we hit a man who was fishing in waders. We knocked him down. I had to get out and lift him onto the shore. At this point my TA decided he would do the navigating and I would do the rowing. We stopped for another wonderful non-speaking picnic with other TA's and their rowers, only to find out that we had to row back. The TA and I and another couple arrived back at the car, only to notice that the car was out of gas. THIS WAS SUNDAY AT 8:00. I'M THINKING IF I COME BACK AFTER CURFEW MY WHOLE NEXT TWO WEEKENDS ARE GRASS. Needless to say my “friendly” TA and his friend had to walk a long way to a gas station to get gas and then a long way back to the car. They were not happy, the other girl was not happy, and I was downright unhappy. It was now 11:00 p.m. We are now down the driveway to SMC. I am not scared; I am so angry I could spit. I don’t even have to knock. There is SISTER BASIL ANTHONY at her biggest. I don’t care. I look at her and say “Leave me alone” and walk up to my room. About ten minutes later, Sister B.A. tapped on my door and came in with hot chocolate and cookies and said, “You’ve had a bad day.” Best ending to an awful day. Thanks, Sister B.A.!

—Suzanne Sheridan Joyce, Class of 1965

Dear Sister Basil Anthony:

I am sorry not to be with you for your “special” day. It was a wonderful to get to spend some time with you in August though, especially as it was such a surprise for both of us. Your infamous interview with all sophomores was the first time I had an opportunity to meet you and I just remember leaving feeling happy that I had not embarrassed myself. I do remember starting to have meetings with you my junior year and first hearing the phrase you would repeat many, many times: “Stevie, go screw yourself………. to your desk and study”!

The 1967-68 academic year was an experience I will never forget. “Turbulent” does not quite capture all that happened. And yet, at all times, you were gracious and kind and so helpful. Together we weathered Susan Kelly’s death, Sister Mary Grace’s departure, Fr. McGrath and Redman’s arrival, merger/non-merger, and the development of the statement of students’ rights and responsibilities. While other campuses were experiencing a great divide between students and the administration, at Saint Mary’s students and faculty and administrators came together for (I don’t know how many) countless hours peacefully hammering out a way to merge the student desire to be recognized with the College’s needs. You believed in the process from the beginning and I know the statement would not have gained administrative acceptance had you not supported and shepherded it the entire time. Thank you.

Many fun things, though, also happened that year. I will never forget when Student Government passed a resolution approving smoking in the Dining Hall and Fr. McGrath responded that each student body president was permitted three mistakes and I had only two left! We also finally got the Chrysler (burgundy, I think) for Student Government that you had lobbied for but couldn’t drive. We must have looked like quite a pair driving around South Bend!

I have always believed that the experience of working with you, especially on the statement of student rights and responsibilities, was an “aha” moment for me. I began to understand how gentle guidance from an adult could truly help a student to mature beyond where they would have gone without that gentle guidance. I remember the day I told you that I had decided I wanted to be a Dean of Students but didn’t know how to go about accomplishing it. You pointed me toward graduate schools and, I believe, wrote a very nice recommendation which no doubt made up for my grade point average (as I had not screwed myself to my desk and studied enough)!

Our lives have continued to cross, at least indirectly, ever since. I had the opportunity to work with Mary Alice Cannon, who you brought to Saint Mary’s as your replacement in 1969, when I worked there in the mid-70’s. Mary Alice introduced me to Mary Kinnane, who had been Dean of Women at Boston College, and I ended up going there for my doctoral work with her as my advisor. My first job after B.C. was at Regis University in Denver where I proceeded to “watch over” two or three of Barb Trafficanda’s children. And, at a conference for student affairs personnel at Jesuit institutions in New Orleans, I got to meet your brother.

Even though we don’t talk with or see each other very often any more, when I do see you, it’s just like we had seen or talked to each other last week. Thank you so very much for being you and teaching me so much. I’ll see you in June at my (we won’t say which year) reunion! Love and prayers,

—Stevie Wernig, Class of 1968

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

It is with great joy that I have this opportunity to congratulate you on your 90th birthday! May you be ever blessed by the Lord. I have only had the honor of knowing you since the beginning of my administration a few years ago and so I will limit my thoughts to how wonderfully you have accepted this new phase in your life: the "winding down" time. You still stay as active as you possibly are able while at the same time you continue to be involved with friends from many, many years. I admire your courage and tenacity. You are a true woman of Holy Cross, a woman of faith.

Love,

—Sister Rose Edward, CSC

Dear Sister,

It has been 39 years since I shared a room next to you in Le Mans Hall. I was always amazed how little I saw you, how quiet you were, and how you never complained about the noise I made. That was a very difficult time in my life as my father had died and it was years before I grasped why college had been such a struggle for me. I was in the Speech and Drama Department that was fighting for its life and all of the politics really disillusioned me. You were calm during that storm for me. As time has passed, SMC has become so much more to me. Our girls almost went there but last minute events changed their minds. My husband still says we should have made them go to SMC. I so hope you are as well as possible at 90 and the aches and pains are few. SMC would have been a great place to have spent ones career and life. You are very special. Lot of love and prayers,

—Susan Argus McNamara, Class of 1968

Thanks for doing this to honor Sister. We entered the Congregation together the same year. Although I am six years younger, we had many good times together. She is a great lady. Bon anniversaire a tu, dear Sister B. A.!

—Sister Pat Hogan, CSC, Class of 1959

I was not fortunate enough to have known you when I was a student at Saint Mary’s, but one of the highlights of my service on the Alumnae Board was getting to know you! You, Sister, are what Saint Mary’s stands for to me. First, you are holy. You are smart. You love life! And you really live it each day! Your warmth draws people close to you…and you embrace them as though they are old friends. This is what I felt when I had the privilege and good fortune to get to know you. Thank you so much for that. I will always hold Saint Mary’s dear as it was the place where I grew up, and I always felt that I was safe and happy there. You embody the spirit of that place in my heart. I wish you many more years of health and happiness there under the Le Mans Tower!

 

With love and appreciation for you,

—Patti Daly Blacker, Class of 1980

Dear Sister M. Basil Anthony,

Congratulations on your 90th birthday! What an accomplishment. You are so loved and appreciated by so many people. I first knew you when you were the Dean of Students at Saint Mary's. It was wonderful knowing such a knowledgeable person was in charge of my academic career. I felt so secure knowing I could go to you anytime and receive an honest and correct judgment. Thank you for all your help.

Sincerely,

—Susan Klover Martin, Class of 1966

A birthday poem from the family of Joseph Bonadies

Happy Birthday Sister Basil Anthony,
Dear friend of our father for so many years
Whose welcoming smile endured through the years.
When we were on campus and walked through Le Mans
a visit to your office was always a charm.
Your thoughtful attention, your welcoming smile
and a name like "B.A." did wonders to disarm!
Dad spoke of you often, of your fairness and grace,
But there was nothing like meeting you face to face,
your soft spoken charm, your eyes full of love,
all the Bonadies kids knew you were blessed from above.
Happy Birthday dear Sister and we wish you many more,
and thank you for being the person you are:
Loving and kind, you are a joy to see,
So, many happy birthday wishes to Sister Basil Anthony!

With love from,

—Margaret Bonadies Blonigan, Class of 1981
On behalf of my parents, Rosemary and Joseph T. Bonadies, my sister and brothers, Angela Bonadies Hambling, Lewis, Thomas, Phillip, Christopher, Timothy, John and Joseph V. Bonadies.

Dear Sister Basil Anthony:

I want to add my greetings to those of others helping you to celebrate your 90th birthday. My Saint Mary's days seem long ago but the lessons learned have stayed with me. You were certainly one of the "giants" at Saint Mary's during my days (1958-62) and I will remember your wise advice always.

Best wishes,

—Sara Camblin Breault, Class of 1962

Not many can say they enjoy staff meetings, but I actually looked forward to each Friday morning when Tom Becker, director of development at that time, gathered us together. It was a dynamic and harmonious group. We could always count on Sister B.A.’s wise and light-hearted comments throughout the meeting…and very often goodies as well. Each time with the assurance, “all the calories have been taken out”. She brimmed with a love of Saint Mary’s and the sisters of Holy Cross. I remember one particular summer day when she rounded up a number of us after lunch, and gave us a tour of the original buildings on campus. As we went along she pointed out priceless pictures of postulants, and also shared with us the rich history of the sisters, beginning with their founding in Le Mans. (My own great aunt, Sister Christeta, (Georgianna Cressy) was part of the order, so this was a gift to me personally.) Afterwards Sister B.A. produced a yummy chocolate cake which she had bought from Dainty Maid to celebrate the occasion. I know she wore many hats at the College before I came on board but, from my vantage point, her role as vice president for public relations and development suited her to a “T”. Shortly after I arrived at SMC, the vice president for College Relations held a meeting in Stapleton Lounge, laying out specific goals and detailed strategies about an upcoming, ambitious fund raising campaign. At the end Sister B.A. smiled, and then offered her own comments, “We can have all these plans, but in the end (pointing upward); prayer is what will get the job done.” And, as part of her role, she knew her alumna, and just what made them tick! She reached way back in years with them, stayed in frequent contact with them, loved and cared for them and, in turn, fostered their love and loyalty to Saint Mary’s.

She was God’s woman, first and foremost. That became clear to me one afternoon when she stopped by my desk and, somehow, we ended up talking about obedience. She said she believed that this was an important part of the formation in the Holy Cross order. She offered an example of a nun who might have an elderly parent who would like to have her assigned close-by, yet learned she was to be reassigned to a location far away. She felt that the sister’s first answer to the superior should be an immediate “yes”. She went on to say that she could certainly offer a further explanation of her needs, but her final trust should be in the decision of her superior. She had it right! It’s the same disposition and obedience Jesus had to the Father – and the root of the same humility He asks of us. I know that God is well pleased with this precious servant of His. I pray she has many more years in His service. How fitting that her namesake, Basil Anthony Moreau, was made “Blessed” during her lifetime!

With much affection and admiration,

—Bev Bradley, former Saint Mary’s staff

It was my first year at SMC, and I didn't know many people on campus. One day I was coming out of Moreau when it started raining hard. As I passed the Le Mans door, a very tall imposing woman came down the stairs. Before I knew what was happening, an arm reached out, pulled me under her umbrella, and I was swept along to the dining hall. That was how I met Sister BA.

—Marcia Rickard, Saint Mary’s College faculty

The first time I ever saw Sister Basil Anthony she was Dean of Students and was walking toward me along with Sister Raphalita, Dean of Admission. What an imposing pair. Mutt and Jeff is what came to mind, however, you won't dare think that out loud. I had heard stories of Sister B.A. (as she was then called only behind her back) and how stern she was when dealing with the students. When you could only see their faces from the habit that they wore then, they did look rather stern. Once you got to know them, they were human just like the rest of us and really cared about the students and the College. Over the years Sister B.A. has become a real friend and always made sure that I knew what was happening with Sister Alma Eugene who was the interim controller after John Coriden left in 1967. I wish her good health and many more birthdays.

—Diana Barnes, Saint Mary’s College staff

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

You came to Saint Mary's College the year I as born. When I came you were Dean of Students and would come to our office to use the Xerox machine, always entering with your "knock, knock". It has been a pleasure to know and work with you. I wish you a very happy belated birthday and all the best of health. And you truly ARE Saint Mary's.

—Carol Haag, Saint Mary’s College staff

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Many years ago, my classmates were both surprised and pleased when I was asked by the Alumnae Office and the Student Council to speak to the students about “careers.” They also wanted to help and asked me to meet with the then male President while on campus to offer their suggestions. But it was "you" who pointed me in the right direction to Jo Ann MacKenzie and the Office of Development and Alumnae Relations. As a result of your wisdom and assistance, others from the Class of ’55 have been part of alumnae programs and I have personally benefited from the rewards of a senior receiving the Political Science Award. While this is not a perfect syllogism, hopefully I have captured the very important role you played in a non-graduate’s small contribution to a college’s administration and student body that have been greatly enhanced by your life, work and faith. Happy 90th Birthday, Sister Basil Anthony. I am sending a small contribution in your honor.

With love and gratitude,

—Juliette Noone Lester, Class of 1955

Always when I came back she was there to greet us all and with her never failing smile. She has always been an inspiration as to what a Holy Cross vocation is all about and is an example of the person fitting the calling.

—Elizabeth W. Ravenscroft, Class of 1952

As a transfer student to St. Mary's in 1962 I only had 2 years with Sister but she and my Mother had a very special relationship. My mother made the best brownies a girl could wish for. Mom always told me to make sure I took a few to Sister. I may have followed directions on that request. When my brother died over Thanksgiving break Sister was so very kind to me. I have always remembered that about Sister. She could be firm and demanding but she could be gentle and nurturing too. One time I tested her "rule." I was taking exams. I missed dinner. I was hungry. I did the unforgivable...I popped pop corn in my room-and blew the fuse and the whole wing went dark. I had to knock on her door and tell her what I had done. She demanded my pop corn popper and I got a week end grounding....I didn't make pop corn again. Sister stood for all that St. Mary's is. She was an educated woman. She was/is a holy woman. She was going to mold us into St. Mary's women. I was nor the average St. Mary's student. I was a challenge. I think she liked that in me. I loved her smile, the twinkle in her eye that told me she had heard ALL the excuses an undergrad could think up, so we might as well not try them on her. She loved St. Mary's as much as I. I am thrilled that I have the opportunity to tell her how much she meant to me! God bless and keep you!

—Nan Tomshack Tulchinsky, Class of 1964

Whenever I recall my wonderful years at St. Mary’s, Sister Basil Anthony is always right there in the center of those memories. Sister became the Dean of Women my senior year and since I was a class officer I spent many hours in her office with her. We seniors were always petitioning for something new and different and she would patiently sit behind her desk, listen, smile, and sometimes she would even make those ideas a reality. She guided us with calming strength and poise and taught us so very much. Never have I met a kinder, sweeter, or more competent woman. She is the perfect example of a gracious lady. Her warmth and charm has been evident throughout her life as she championed St. Mary’s. My husband Bill and I have kept in touch with Sister throughout these past 46 years. Her letters, our visits with her on campus, and her many prayers have enriched our lives. On her 90th Birthday we salute a grand lady and send our love to our dear, dear friend.

Lovingly,

—Peggy Meyer Soule, Class of 1962

Sister Basil Anthony has always held a special place in my heart as did each of "her girls" in her heart. There are so many memories and in each one, when I look back, her eyes, though grave, sometimes still twinkled.

# 1: Sister Basil Anthony and Sister Alma were always at the front desk of Le Mans Hall when we would return each evening to sign-in before curfew. Yes, we had curfews! At the time, first semester freshman year (1966), I was such a goodie two shoes that I didn't drink at all. I didn't like the taste of beer or that ND jungle juice. However, Sister was ever vigilant and whether you drank or not, you knew better than to open your mouth to respond when asked' "Did you have a good time, dear?" There was a whole lot of head nodding going on in those days!

# 2: Other than her omni-presence, one of my first memories of Sister B. A. was of my very first panty raid in the spring of 1967. As a second semester freshman, I thought I had great sophistication when it came to the men of Notre Dame. That was until we heard this rumbling and what sounded like thunder coming from the east. As the noise grew louder, there was much chaos and finally giggling and shouting when we could understand clearly the chanting. It was a very large group of men yelling "Here come the Irish" as they stampeded down the Avenue. And, oh how we all flew to our windows hoping that one of them would stand beneath our window and plead and beg for the favor of one of our bras and/or panties!

There they were below us hollering and whistling and I saw several bras and panties tumble into the night air. I, however, had been raised by a very practical mother (ever the goodie two shoes) and I knew she would frown on my tossing any of what little underwear I owned out the window. (Even at 300 miles, I wasn't sure what she'd say if I told her I needed new undies. Besides, also practical, my personal items were plain white cotton and my bra size was only a 32A something I was certain a "suave" Notre Dame man would sneer at!)

 

So instead of tossing my undies out the window, I struck up a conversation with one of the young men below my three main Le Mans window. Unbeknownst to me, my roommate had run to someone else’s room and left our bedroom door ajar.Things had quieted down and this young man and I were having a lovely chat when I felt this hand grab me by the back of my neck and lift. To my surprise and chagrin, I was lifted out of the window and the voice of Sister Basil Anthony was saying, "Is that any way for a young woman from Saint Mary's to behave?" as she shook my head from side to side, I heard my brains rattle and my teeth chatter. When I tried to explain that we were just talking and that my underwear was all intact, Sister had none of it! She finally let me go and quietly closed the window and told me, "Your mother would be so disappointed!" That ended my conversation as Sister left to my bowed head and blushing face!

# 3: Some years later, Sister Basil Anthony came to visit Atlanta. My husband, Peter (ND ' 69) and I had been invited to a Saint Mary's dinner and development function and were delighted to attend just because B. A. was going to be there. As we walked in she spoke to me by name and addressed my husband by name. Afterward, my husband said, "I remember Sister being much taller!" I laughed and said, "Me, too! I think it had to do with that huge white wimple she wore when she was in habit." And then he shared his own story with me.

As a freshman at Notre Dame, he had been a part of the spring ' 66 panty raid. He laughed and said, "We had stormed down the Avenue and were excited but winded as we approached Holy Cross Hall (a freshman dorm at the time). As we got to the bottom of the steps and started up, the front door opened and out stepped the biggest nun I had ever seen. She came quietly out of the door, stood on the top step and had a baseball bat lightly tapping her left hand. She then asked us, 'How can I help you young men?' You have never seen anything as funny as all of us running for the hills completely forgetting our mission." Peter also has fond memories of Sister being in the old Reignbeaux Room when it was a homecoming dance or prom evening, admiring how beautiful her "girls" were and how handsome their escorts!

# 4: We had come back to campus to visit and as I walked in to the Alumnae Office, I saw Sister sitting at her desk. I quietly knocked and she gestured to come in, came around her desk, gave me a huge hug, inviting me (by name) to sit down to catch up! I told her that our son, Peter, was at Notre Dame and that both, Peter and I had high hopes that our daughter, Veronica, would take a very serious look at Saint Mary's. She told me how much she loved it when her "girls" daughters attended because it brought back old memories and gave her new ones. Then she started to smile broadly. I asked what was so funny and she told me that she had told Sister Alma that this freshman class (1970) promised to be a great challenge. I told her we weren't that bad. We just did a lot of rule modifying, like slacks on campus, curfews/hours, and men on campus. And then she reminded me about one of our first attempts at change.

We were not allowed to wear slacks on campus even if it was a football Saturday and the temperature was somewhere below freezing. You could put them on, but you had to roll them up over your knees and have on some sort of long coat. So roll them up we would, put on our raincoats and head off campus where we would roll the slacks back down. (I'm talking slacks, not jeans -- a Saint Mary's woman wouldn't have been caught dead in jeans! They just weren't the style either.) One day a group of us came downstairs headed off campus in slacks, rolled above the knee, and covered with a raincoat made out of clear vinyl. We had on raincoats, so we had met the letter of the law, but our slacks were in full view even though they were rolled above our knees. She reminded me that she told Sister Alma that this was a group of young women who thought outside the box and that they (the sisters and Saint Mary's) were in for a bumpy ride. I had forgotten about that raincoat after 25 years but Sister remembered it with relish and just a hint of twinkle in her eye.

And last but not least --

# 5: Our daughter, Veronica, entered Saint Mary's in the fall of 1997 and spent the next four years reveling in all that Saint Mary's had to offer. As part of her experience, she participated in L. O. N. I. during the summer of 2000. From that summer program, came the book Quiet Hours: Revealing the Mysteries. Veronica and her friends, Shelly and Kristen, began the daunting process of uncovering the ghost stories of Saint Mary's. Together, they researched the archives, talked to the sisters, and spoke to alumnae. One of Veronica's tasks was to meet with Sister Basil Anthony. When she told me about it, I said to have fun, that B. A. was the best, and by all means, DO NOT BE LATE! (Knowing that she had never been on time, not even for her birth!)

When I spoke to her the following day, I asked how her interview had gone with Sister. There was a very pregnant pause and I asked, "You weren't late, were you?" More silence and then a very quiet, "Yes." It turned out that she was 10 minutes late and that when she arrived Sister almost refused to see her. However, B. A. finally acquiesced and met with her for two hours, sharing story after story. As the interview ended, Veronica thanked Sister and Sister said, "Your mother would be so disappointed to know that you were late. Try to do better in the future!" To which she responded, "Yes, Sister!"

And so, dear Sister Basil Anthony, I, too, respond, "Yes, Sister!" as I have all these years! You are the best and it is thanks to you that I am the woman I am!

Happy Birthday!!!!

Love,

—Ronnie Henry Kessenich, Class of 1970,
wife of Peter Green Kessenich, ND 1969
and mother of: Peter Green Kessenich, Jr., ND 1997
Veronica Louise Kessenich, Saint Mary's 2001

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

You are one of the highlights of my four years at St. Mary's. You emulate what we were taught is the "whole" woman. As a Dean, you set the bar to a new height. However, I most appreciated your supportive and inspiring counsel. You were understanding and directive guiding me through my anxiety and on toward positive action. I cherish your generous friendship and your many kindnesses. Happy, happy birthday!

With love and prayers,

—Cille "Ceci" Sorrentino Bucolo, Class of 1965

Dear Sister B.A.,

I have always felt that I was extremely lucky to have attended St. Mary's College and even luckier to have been there when you were dean of students. What wonderful years those were. You always made us feel as if you knew each one of us and that we really mattered to you. That's a wonderful gift to a young woman trying to figure out who she is. I thank you for that. It was really special to bring my two St. Mary's alumnae daughters to campus and have you greet us. My family still can't get over how after all these years you still remembered the four beautiful bedspreads that my mother made for me and my roommates. You also surprised us by remembering when my youngest, Michelle, arrived as a freshman, that she had been up the entire night the previous spring at her prom and flew in for her sister, Cathy's graduation. Your wonderful memory certainly made people fell special! All of the Mansfield family wishes you a very happy and blessed 90th birthday. We will keep you in our prayers and are having a Mass offered in honor of your birthday and in thanksgiving for what you have given to all who were part of St. Mary's during the many years you have been there.

May God bless you always,

—Kelly and Carol Smither Mansfield, Class of 1966, Cathy Mansfield Fox, Class of 1989, and Michelle Mansfield Bocock, Class of 1993

Dear Sister BA,

I am so glad to have this opportunity to tell you how much you have meant to me for so many years. We were blessed to have you as our Dean of Students for three of our four years at St. Mary's and I was especially lucky to work so closely with you through my student government jobs. I will never be able to measure how much I learned from our marathon student government meetings, especially the meetings during which we created the community government structure for the college. When other colleges were in turmoil during those difficult late 60's, we students had the benefit of working with you and other wonderful members of the faculty and administration. I often said during my years as a lawyer that my experiences in student government at St. Mary's taught me at least as much about being a good lawyer as law school did. And so much of that tremendous benefit came from you.

I cannot thank you enough for the infinite number of hours you gave us during those years and your thoughtfulness, patience and wisdom. You were always so generous with your time and energy.

On top of all that, we had a lot of fun. I treasure my memories of St. Mary's and will always be so grateful that I was able to go there and you are largely responsible for what St. Mary's means to me. Thank you so, so much, dear Sister BA.

All my love,

—Theresie Ambrusko, Class of 1969

Sister Basil Anthony,

I wish you much happiness on the occasion of your 90th birthday. You have touched the lives of many women during your time as an SMC administrator. May your retirement continue to be healthy and happy.

Affectionately,

—Phyllis Pajakowski Largey, Class of 1969

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Congratulations on a wonderful milestone! I'm so happy for you! I was fortunate to be with you as a student ('61-'64) and then work with you for two years ('65-'67). What fun those years were! I call you to mind quite often as I use one of your memorable expressions. From time to time, you would remark on how someone or something had "disimproved". Every time I say that, I preface it with an acknowledgment, "...as Sister B.A. used to say..."!

Celebrate this special birthday with joy and the knowledge that you have positively influenced so many during your lifetime!! Happy Birthday, love and prayers to you!

—Mary Carmody Bradley, Class of 1964

Birthday Blessings Sister Basil Anthony,

We join in celebrating a very special Holy Cross Sister - A St. Mary's Legend - A Lifelong inspiration to every person who lived in the Shadow of Le Mans.

Remembering and Loving You Always,

—Dorothy Abel Purcell, Class of 1944, Kathleen Abel Purcell, Class of 1946, Alicia Purcell, Class of 1973, Andrea Purcell Katz, Class of 1982

Dear Sister B.A.,

Congratulations on your 90th birthday!? What a wonderful milestone - and what a wonderful life of service you have had to generations of SMC students.

The last time we spoke was in 1993 when my daughter Katie Ebner Goodno '95 was injured in an automobile accident on a football weekend. She was treated in the emergency room and released, but I drove to South Bend to make sure she was okay.

Much to my surprise and delight, you called Katie's room to see how she was doing. Where else but at St. Mary's would the dean of students of an alumna who graduated 25 years earlier call to check on the well being of her student daughter! Have a wonderful birthday celebration.

—Maribeth Cleary Ebner, Class of 1967

Dear Sister,

Hearty congratulations on your 90th birthday! Thank you for all you've done for the college over the years. We alumnae owe you a great deal. The following story may be apocryphal, but I remember hearing it when I first arrived at Saint Mary's. Even if it's not true, it ought to be good for a few chuckles.

In my day, oral tradition at Saint Mary's had it that you had single-handedly stopped a panty raid. One warm night, hundreds of restless Notre Dame students had descended on Holy Cross Hall to perpetrate some mischief. As they tried to enter the dorm, you purportedly met them at the front door and uttered one short phrase, "Over my dead body!" They turned as one and ran back to their own campus. I can picture it all in my mind, and it still brings a smile to my face.

Prayers and best wishes from your old neighbor,

—Kathy Yuhas Kwinn, Class of 1970

Dear Sister BA,

How absolutely wonderful that you are celebrating your 90th birthday!! I send you my love and very best wishes for good health and much happiness.

You are one of my favorites. I loved my years at Saint Mary's and whenever I think of the good old days you are a part of everything I remember. You were so good at what you did and how you did it. What meant even more was the way you accepted B.J. and welcomed him. You two saw "eye to eye" in more than one way and he thought you were as special as I thought you were. It's hard to leave home and go away to school especially when you come from a big family living in a small town. There was a measure of hominess when we freshmen all lived together in Holy Cross Hall. But then we came back as sophomores and lived in that big beautiful Le Mans Hall with all of the other upperclassmen. Well, that could have been overwhelming but it wasn't to me because of you. You just made it feel right and your presence was very reassuring.

Thank you ever so much for all you did for all of us at Saint Mary's and for just being you. I treasure all of the memories and you are every bit a part of those memories.

Happy Birthday!! Love,

—Ruth Schnaus Smith, Class of 1963

Happy Birthday, Sister Basil Anthony!!

I shall always remember your loving and authentic concern for St. Mary's women - whether or not we were making correct judgments.

Legends and personal experiences come to mind -

A legend - that you single-handedly turned back a throng of reveling NDers intent on a panty raid after a victory over Purdue in '61 or '62 simply by standing at the end of the avenue and saying to them, "Good evening, gentlemen." And they nodded politely and replied, "Good evening, Sister," and turned around sheepishly and went back to their own campus. I think it became a legend because it is so believable.

A personal experience - a painful time when you had to send a classmate home in May of our senior year because she broke the rules. You came down to our room and talked with Theresa Lapenta, Nancy Wubben and I. You sat at the end of a bed on the second floor of Le Mans and held firm to the rules of the time, but you did it with such kindness and compassion that we understood (but still didn't like) that you had no choice. I know now how difficult that must have been for you, but it was a great example of leadership at hard times for us.

And multiple personal experiences since then being remembered and warmly greeted whenever my sister, Pat, or I would return to campus.

You are a very dear part of my life, and I pray for good health and many, many happy memories for you.

—Molly Martin Mannino, Class of 1965

Sister Basil Anthony,

Many wonderful memories over many years. May your birthday be as special as you are to all of the St. Mary's family. Happy number 90!!!

Love,

—Mary Curley McDougal, Class of 1953

Dear Sister Basil Anthony,

Best wishes for a happy 90th birthday!

Even though it's been 35 years since I graduated from St. Mary's, early fall always brings fresh memories of those wonderful years and the wonderful people. For me, the crisp air, colors, and fragrances of fall symbolize going back to school, to the home of learning where I spent four blessed years. Without guidance from you, Sister, and others like Sister Mercedes, I would not have made it. I would not have graduated; I would not be as strong in my faith as I am; I would not have survived spiritually or emotionally. I would not have learned to enjoy and be grateful for life - the good, the bad and the ugly parts of it.

Thank you for all the prayers you have blessed me with over the years; I know you pray for every one of us. Believe me, it is appreciated. I just wanted to drop you a note to let you know that you, too, are in my daily prayers, and there will be special prayers as you reach this milestone birthday. Congratulations and may God bless you always.

Fondly,

—Jeanine DuFon Smetana, Class of 1972

Dear Sister BA,

Happy Birthday!!! What a wonderful opportunity to celebrate the welcoming and insightful person you are. When I started here at Saint Mary's in 1988 I totally remember your gracious hospitality and welcome as a new member of the Saint Mary's Community! The relationship built over the years and I grew to deeply appreciate the strong woman of faith you are and mentor you have been to me over the years. Thank you deeply for you willingness always to share traditions, history and great stories over the years. Blessing on you! Peace on your heart! Again, Happy Birthday!

—Judy Fean, Saint Mary’s College staff